You’re in a committed and loving relationship. Out of the blue, you start feeling those nerves. Those butterflies. But for someone else! Someone at work. Or maybe it’s someone you see often at your local coffee shop. Is this wrong? What does it imply about your relationship with your partner?
That first feeling you have for an acquaintance or a new person can be an automatic one and does not necessarily mean anything. We’re only human, and I personally think it’s fine to still find other people attractive. However, a crush is more than just a glance and can imply something longer and stronger. Is that kind of emotional feeling for someone whose not your partner still acceptable?
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